We Almost Didn’t Make It

We almost didn’t make it. 10 years together, married 5 years TODAY at the San Diego courthouse (then 2 months later with family and friends) And…yup… we almost didn’t make it. So many ups and downs but WOW, so worth the journey!

I am more in love with my husband today than the day I said “I do”

What didn’t work for us:

• Needing to be “right”
• Putting work before each other
• Forgetting what we love about each other
• Blaming
• Talking to others about our blame.
• Expecting the other to “change”
• Wanting to quit when it got hard

What worked:

• Choosing LOVE
• Patience
• Meaning our commitment
• Working on ourselves and taking personal responsibility
• Lots and lots and LOTS of…